Principal's Message
Our term has started off smoothly and on a high with a very successful dance-a- thon. This week we are back to business as usual. I am hoping many of you were able to complete the Tell Them From Me survey. Teachers are also completing a Tell Them From Me and Mr Semmens is starting a process of consultation with students. A number of students have been randomly selected from each class and spent time with Mr Semmens and the school leaders on Friday discussing ways we can improve learning and wellbeing at LPS. Information gathered will be used to inform the new 2025 – 2028 Strategic Improvement Plan (SIO). We are looking forward to hearing what our students have to say.
We are noticing a number of students, who are talking about and including in their play, online games and characters. Some of this we are finding is not appropriate for this age group or to be shared at school. Whilst there are some benefits to online gaming (social connection, team work, critical thinking skills etc), some children find it difficult to disassociate themselves form this pretend world and become increasingly aggressive in their interactions (verbal and physical) with their peers.
We understand the challenges of parenting in today’s technological world, so I spoke with our school counsellor, Gabby Hussein, around some practical information that may be helpful for parents.
How do I choose age-appropriate content?
Good-quality media can support your child’s learning, especially if it ties in with their interests or sparks their imagination.
The following sites can help you make informed decisions about your family’s entertainment choices.
- Check age ratings and consumer advice for apps and games on devices your children use via the App Store or Google Play. Visit the Australian Classification Board’s online database when reviewing movies and games.
- Raising Children Network has advice about choosing video games, online games and apps.
- Children and Media Australia provides reviews of movies, apps and games, including gambling content advice, searchable by age and platform.
- Commonsense Media (US site) offers a database of apps, games and websites searchable by age.
Does your child play violent video games?
Just like television and movies, video games are classified to help decide what is suitable for your children to play. As a parent or carer, you are the best person to talk with your child about which video games are ok for them to play.
Some games contain strong, realistic and graphic violence. This violence may upset, harm or disturb young children because they are not developmentally ready to be exposed to it.
Just like you may not want your child watching MA 15+ or R 18+ movies because the content is not suitable for them, you might not want them playing MA 15+ or R 18+ games for the same reason.
When should parents worry about online gaming?
As with any behaviour, online gaming becomes problematic when it interferes with or overshadows other aspects of life. The key questions when considering if gaming has become problematic are:
- Is gaming monitored and appropriately supervised?
- How does gaming impact family relationships and activities?
- How does gaming impact your child’s sleep and physical and emotional well-being?
- Does your child respond with aggression when limits are set around gaming?
Generally problems associated with gaming can be indicative of other issues happening in a child’s life or within the family. Many children use gaming as a way to avoid dealing with difficult emotions and life issues so simply banning gaming may not solve the entire problem.
What can parents do?
While many parents feel powerless to address the impact of gaming in their family, there are some steps parents can take to achieve a healthy balance:
- Like any other aspect of a child’s life, gaming should not be a completely private activity
- Be informed about what games your child plays, being mindful of content and age classifications
- Show an interest in what your child is playing and even play with them from time to time
- Negotiate appropriate limits with your child around gaming
- Putting limits around gaming can be met with resistance so be prepared for how to manage this
Changing a child’s gaming habits can be challenging and Parent Line counsellors can provide you with support, strategies and links to services to help you do this. Phone 1300 1300 52
I hope you find this information and websites useful.
Have a lovely weekend.
Lisa Hughes
Principal (relieving)