The Importance of Monitoring Children on Devices and Understanding the Impact of Online Bullying
In today’s digital world, children are spending increasing amounts of time on electronic devices, engaging in social media, gaming, and online learning. While technology offers many benefits, it also presents significant risks, including exposure to cyberbullying. As parents and educators, it is crucial to monitor children’s online activities and equip them with the skills to navigate digital spaces safely.
The Impact of Online Bullying
Online bullying, or cyberbullying, can have severe consequences for young people’s mental health and well-being. Research indicates that victims of cyberbullying are at an increased risk of anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem (Kowalski et al., 2019). Unlike traditional bullying, cyberbullying can be relentless, occurring at any time of day and reaching a broader audience. It may involve harassment, spreading rumours, exclusion, or impersonation.
For children and adolescents, the effects of cyberbullying can be long-lasting, impacting their confidence, school engagement, and social relationships. It is essential for parents to be aware of the signs, such as changes in mood, withdrawal from social activities, reluctance to use devices, or declining academic performance (Patchin & Hinduja, 2020).
The Role of Parents in Monitoring Device Use
Parents play a key role in ensuring their children’s online safety. Effective monitoring does not mean invading privacy but rather fostering open conversations about digital behaviour. Here are some practical steps parents can take:
- Set clear guidelines: Establish rules for device use, including screen time limits and appropriate online behaviour.
- Use parental controls: Many devices and apps offer parental controls to restrict access to inappropriate content and monitor activity.
- Encourage open communication: Make it clear that children can approach you if they encounter online issues.
- Stay informed: Keep up to date with the platforms and apps your child is using to understand potential risks.
- Model responsible online behaviour: Demonstrate positive digital habits, such as respectful communication and balanced screen time.
Further Reading and Support for Parents
There are numerous resources available to help parents navigate the complexities of online safety and cyberbullying:
- eSafety Commissioner (Australia) – Provides advice, resources, and reporting tools for online safety: https://www.esafety.gov.au
- Raising Children Network – Offers parenting tips and strategies for managing screen time and online interactions: https://raisingchildren.net.au
- Kids Helpline – A confidential support service for young people experiencing cyberbullying or mental health challenges: 1800 55 1800 or https://kidshelpline.com.au
- Headspace – Supports youth mental health, including coping strategies for online bullying: https://headspace.org.au
By actively monitoring device use and fostering open discussions, parents can help their children develop healthy digital habits and resilience against online bullying. Creating a supportive environment where children feel comfortable seeking help can make a significant difference in their overall well-being.
References
Kowalski, R. M., Giumetti, G. W., Schroeder, A. N., & Lattanner, M. R. (2019). Bullying in the digital age: A critical review and meta-analysis of cyberbullying research among youth. Psychological Bulletin, 145(4), 270–299. https://doi.org/10.1037/bul0000172
Patchin, J. W., & Hinduja, S. (2020). Cyberbullying prevention and response: Expert perspectives (2nd ed.). Routledge.